This is because the anal sphincter is likely to clamp shut at the first sign of pain or anxiety. Please enter a valid password. Using latex gloves for penetration with fingers and dental damns for mouth to anus contact may not sound the sexiest thing in the world but they can certainly help to limit any potential health hazards. I Love You Relationships now. Quora User , living life with pizazz. Sign in.
Page 1 of 5. If she agrees to try it once, make it as relaxing and romantic for her as possible. As it turns out, he just wanted to have his ass cake and sext his ex-girlfriend too. Quick Reply. Send a letter to the editor and we'll publish your feedback in print!
Hearing him say that made it much less intimidating since I then felt free to make up my own mind about whether or not I liked it. Focus on the most immediate thing in front of you. Did it feel good? If not for the anonymity of this site I would be WAY too embarrassed to respond to this, and I'm not quite sure from your post if your wife is scared of receiving anal sex or if you are interested in having her use a sex toy on you as Personal's post seems to suggest, but I will fill you in on how it worked out for me and my boyfriend.
Join the discussion. Sign the petition. Due to the sheer scale of this comment community, we are not able to give each post the same level of attention, but we have preserved this area in the interests of open debate. Topics Relationships Dear Mariella. Confirm both parties are fully on board. As explained by GMFA, the pressure sends a message to your brain that you need to empty your bowels. He need to be able to consider your health and comfort while you two have sex.